By Jarrett Ourman
Once only simple bricks concentrated amongst the wealthy, cell phones have since evolved into the modern tools that dominate our world. However, paired with these new capabilities come new obstacles, especially for parents who wonder when their child “needs” a phone. Although there isn’t a clear answer, the pros and cons can help people make a decision.
Firstly, a main reason kids want phones is to feel connected to others. As early as middle school, almost every one of your friends is messaging each other, posting videos, and sharing things. Kids who don’t have phones at this time often will feel disconnected.
Additionally, many parents who have kids with a phone gain comfort from it as they know that they can always text them or call whenever they need. Especially as tweens age into more independent teens, this digital link is of great value to many parents.
Nonetheless, the concern that arises from having a phone at a young age or any age is the exposure to social media and its negative effects, such as anxiety. Many parents are able to avoid the social media influence as they can set screen time limits on their kids device whether that’s shutting it down completely or giving them an hour a day. That said, there’s really no common means for keeping kids away from the larger digital ecosystem when they receive a phone.
Still, there are also many alternatives to having a phone. For example, the Gizmo watch allows kids to communicate with their parents but doesn’t have the ability to download social media.
Generally, students in Irvington receive a cellphone from their parents around middle school.
Sophomore Jake Piersol said “I got my first phone at 11. It helped me feel more connected and mature.” When asked when he got his first phone. “I feel like the social media aspect should have come in at a later time, but it was very entertaining.” He added when asked if social media is a problem for young kids wanting phones.
At the end of the day, if you’re okay with your child being exposed to social media or are fine with managing restrictions on their time, a phone offers great benefits. However, if you’re worried about the influence that social media and increased screen time will have, then consider alternatives and feel free to prolong the introduction.
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